HANUKAH: EDUCATING CHILDREN ABOUT MONEY
Hard to believe but in a few days the holiday of Hanukah begins. This past week, in what used to be contained just to the United States, consumers around the world were blitzed with black Friday and cyber Monday advertisements. They were urged to whip out their plastic and start shopping because, well, everything is on sale. Do you need the item? Can you afford it? Hey it doesn’t matter; it’s a black Friday doorbuster and you can always pay with debt!!!
The proximity of this global shopping spree with Hanukah, can serve as a reminder on how we must educate our children (maybe ourselves as well) about money. After all, what kind of message does it send our children when the pinnacle of the year for their parents is “shopping day”? What do they learn when that is what evokes the most excitement and passion? Of course it’s not just black Friday. Children are confronted with some very negative messages regarding money. “Spend money, buy things and you will have happiness.” We are continually sold the fantasy that more and more things bring bliss. But it just isn’t true. After all, how many of us have closets full of toys that our kids “needed to have” only to find them sitting covered in dust?
Much like a salmon swimming upstream in order to spawn, we need to fight against this prevailing culture of fiscal irresponsibility and teach our children the proper role of money. I understand it is not easy, after all,from the government on down, spending money that one doesn’t have has become a global pastime.
Start teaching by using the message found in Hanukah gelt!
What does it teach?
There are many opinions as to the reason of Hanukah gelt. The Talmud in tractate Shabbat discusses what a poor person should do if he doesn’t have enough money to purchase both Hanukah candles and wine for the Shabbat Kiddush. The Talmud answers that he should purchase Hanukah candles because they publicize the miracle of the oil. The Magen Avram comments that the custom of giving Hanukah gelt enabled the poor to get the money needed to buy candles without feeling shame.
Why Chanukah Gelt?
I have another answer. The concept of giving Hanukah gelt is conveyed in a passage in the Code of Jewish Law (Shulchan Aruch), where it states: “It is forbidden to derive any benefit from the lights of the Hanukah menorah… even to use the light to count your money.”
We may ask why the phrase, “count your money,” is used here specifically. The reason for this is found within the word Hanukah, which is the root of the Hebrew word chinuch, education. Hanukah is a time when we celebrate the Jewish people prevailing over the Greek Hellenists, who sought the spiritual, rather than the physical, destruction of the Jewish people. Today, this culture is based on consumerism and instant physical gratification, and it is as much of a threat to our existence today as Hellenism was to the Jewish people then. The symbol of this culture is money.
A child needs to know where money comes from. To a child receiving Chanukah gelt, it seems as if money is always available. When their parents run out of money, they simply go to a small machine in the wall, punch in a few numbers and take out even more money. It’s like it’s always available.
For this reason, the first thing to tell our children to do when they receive Chanukah gelt is to give charity. Then, we should talk to them about saving. Ask your child what she would like to use her money for. If she wants to buy an x-box or a bicycle, explain that she should save up her money. Children need to understand that money is earned through honest hard work. With older children, long-term savings can be discussed. Money earned from babysitting, waiting tables or from a website can be invested. The child can learn about important financial concepts like compound interest, receiving dividends from stocks, and watch the money grow.
For this reason, we give Hanukah gelt to educate our children in the importance of giving charity and doing good deeds. They need to learn that this money should be used for constructive purposes, and that the pursuit of money for its own sake is not the point of our existence. Rather, the reason why we have merited money is to use it for positive purposes that will benefit other people.
Teaching our children good money habits is a good way to beat back the forces of the modern day Hellenists and internalize the message of Hanukah.
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